Adults raised to be ‘good girls’ often struggle with boundaries, burnout, and self-worth

Being raised to always be polite, agreeable, or self-sacrificing might seem harmless at first. But for many adults, this ‘good girl’ conditioning creates long-term emotional and relational challenges. From difficulty setting boundaries to chronic people-pleasing, these patterns can quietly shape how individuals navigate work, relationships, and personal decisions. Understanding these effects is a first step in unlearning outdated expectations and building a life rooted in authenticity, rather than approval-seeking or self-erasure.












