If you don’t understand these harsh realities, your marriage could be headed for heartbreak before you know it.

You might think you’ve cracked the code on love after years of being with someone, but even the strongest couples find themselves blindsided by challenges they never anticipated. The idea that love will effortlessly carry a marriage through decades of change, hardship, and evolution is a comforting myth—but a myth nonetheless. The reality is, sustaining a marriage takes far more than just affection and shared memories. It takes grit, patience, and a willingness to do the work even when the emotional payoff feels distant or uncertain.
It’s built on mutual respect, emotional honesty, and the ability to show up—again and again—even when things feel off-kilter. If you want real, lasting happiness, understanding these uncomfortable truths could be the difference between drifting apart and growing stronger together.