Many traditional rules were about order and control more than mutual understanding or kindness

What once passed for apparent respect can sometimes feel like subtle control. Etiquette evolves alongside cultural values, and younger generations are rethinking which social norms still make sense. While the goal of good manners remains—showing care and consideration—some older customs now come off as inflexible or unnecessarily formal. Understanding these shifts can help bridge generational gaps and make room for genuine respect grounded in context, not just custom.












