Privacy isn’t secrecy, it’s just having a spine.

Some people overshare because they’re open. Other people overshare because they’re anxious, hoping intimacy will buy them safety. Real wisdom is knowing the difference, and choosing your words like they matter, because they do.
Being self-protective doesn’t mean you’re cold or dishonest. It means you understand that not everyone is safe, not everyone is mature, and not everyone deserves the backstage pass to your life. A little privacy keeps your peace intact.












